Relapse is one of the most misunderstood parts of the recovery journey. Many people see it as a failure—but in reality, relapse is a common and natural part of healing from addiction. It doesn’t mean recovery is impossible. Instead, it offers an opportunity to learn, adjust, and grow stronger.
Let’s take a closer look at why relapse happens, what science tells us about it, and how we can build better strategies to prevent it.
Let’s take a closer look at why relapse happens, what science tells us about it, and how we can build better strategies to prevent it.
What Is Relapse?
Relapse means going back to using a substance after a period of abstinence. It can happen after days, months, or even years of sobriety. Relapse often follows a gradual process, not just a single event. It usually includes:
Understanding these stages helps us intervene early and build resilience before a slip turns into a full relapse.
- Emotional relapse feeling stressed, anxious, or isolated but not using yet
- Mental relapse: thinking about using, missing the substance, or bargaining
- Physical relapse: actually using the substance again
Understanding these stages helps us intervene early and build resilience before a slip turns into a full relapse.
Relapse Is Common—Not a Moral Failure
Addiction is a chronic brain condition, much like asthma or diabetes. Just like symptoms can return in those illnesses, relapse is part of the recovery curve.
According to the National Institute on Drug Abuse (NIDA), 40–60% of people recovering from substance use disorders experience at least one relapse. That rate is similar to relapse rates for other chronic illnesses like high blood pressure and asthma NIDA, 2020.
Relapse doesn’t mean you’re weak or uncommitted. It means your brain and body are still healing—and healing is rarely a straight line.
According to the National Institute on Drug Abuse (NIDA), 40–60% of people recovering from substance use disorders experience at least one relapse. That rate is similar to relapse rates for other chronic illnesses like high blood pressure and asthma NIDA, 2020.
Relapse doesn’t mean you’re weak or uncommitted. It means your brain and body are still healing—and healing is rarely a straight line.
What Causes Relapse?
Relapse doesn’t happen out of nowhere. Often, it builds up over time when people feel overwhelmed, unsupported, or disconnected.
Here are some of the most common triggers:
Here are some of the most common triggers:
1. Stress and Overwhelm
Stress is one of the top triggers for relapse. When life feels out of control, substances may seem like a quick escape.
A 2017 study in Drug and Alcohol Dependence found that high stress levels significantly increased the risk of relapse, especially in early recovery Sinha, 2017.
A 2017 study in Drug and Alcohol Dependence found that high stress levels significantly increased the risk of relapse, especially in early recovery Sinha, 2017.
2. Negative Emotions
Feelings like shame, anger, guilt, or loneliness can push people toward using again, especially if they haven’t built healthy coping tools yet.
3. Triggers in the Environment
Being around people, places, or things that remind you of past substance use—like bars, old friends, or even certain songs—can spark cravings.
4. Overconfidence or Complacency
Sometimes, when things are going well, people believe they don’t need support anymore. They may skip meetings, therapy, or self-care routines, leading to increased risk.
5. Physical Pain or Mental Health Issues
Undiagnosed depression, anxiety, trauma, or chronic pain can make it hard to stay sober. If left untreated, they often lead to relapse as people try to self-medicate.
What Happens in the Brain During Relapse?
Addiction rewires the brain, especially the reward system. Substances like opioids, alcohol, or cocaine flood the brain with dopamine, creating strong associations between the substance and pleasure.
Over time, the brain learns that using equals relief. Even after quitting, the brain remembers those old patterns. That’s why cravings can suddenly feel overwhelming, even after months of sobriety.
Stress, cues, or emotional pain can activate these old brain circuits. Without healthy coping tools, the brain urges you to return to what once felt like relief.
This is why addiction is considered a brain disease—it’s not just about willpower. It’s about managing a brain that has been deeply affected by past substance use.
Over time, the brain learns that using equals relief. Even after quitting, the brain remembers those old patterns. That’s why cravings can suddenly feel overwhelming, even after months of sobriety.
Stress, cues, or emotional pain can activate these old brain circuits. Without healthy coping tools, the brain urges you to return to what once felt like relief.
This is why addiction is considered a brain disease—it’s not just about willpower. It’s about managing a brain that has been deeply affected by past substance use.
How to Prevent Relapse
While relapse is common, it’s not inevitable. There are powerful ways to protect your recovery and reduce the risk of returning to old habits.
1. Know Your Triggers
Start by identifying your personal relapse triggers. Keep a journal or work with a therapist to notice patterns—what situations, thoughts, or feelings make you vulnerable?
Once you know your triggers, you can plan ahead:
Once you know your triggers, you can plan ahead:
- Avoid high-risk places
- Set boundaries with certain people
- Build routines that keep you grounded
2. Create a Relapse Prevention Plan
A relapse prevention plan is like a roadmap. It helps you know what to do when cravings hit.
Include:
Keep it somewhere visible—or save it on your phone.
- Warning signs (e.g., skipping meetings, isolating)
- Coping strategies (e.g., call a friend, go for a walk, meditate)
- Emergency contacts or crisis resources
- Motivations to stay sober (e.g., your kids, your health)
Keep it somewhere visible—or save it on your phone.
3. Stay Connected
Recovery thrives in community. Stay active in support groups like AA, NA, SMART Recovery, or therapy. Don’t wait until things feel bad—stay plugged in even on the good days.
A study published in Addiction found that people who regularly attended support groups were significantly more likely to maintain sobriety Kelly & Yeterian, 2012.
A study published in Addiction found that people who regularly attended support groups were significantly more likely to maintain sobriety Kelly & Yeterian, 2012.
4. Practice Daily Self-Care
Protecting your mental, emotional, and physical health is essential. That means:
Self-care is not selfish—it’s a foundation for lasting recovery.
- Getting enough sleep
- Eating nutritious meals
- Moving your body regularly
- Meditating or practicing mindfulness
- Taking breaks and saying no when needed
Self-care is not selfish—it’s a foundation for lasting recovery.
5. Treat Co-Occurring Conditions
If you have depression, anxiety, PTSD, or chronic pain, don’t ignore it. Talk to a doctor or therapist. Integrated treatment that addresses both mental health and addiction is key to long-term success.
6. Forgive Yourself and Learn
If relapse happens, it doesn’t erase your progress. Take a deep breath. Reach out for help. Reflect on what led up to it. Use it as a learning experience—not a reason to give up.
Shame fuels relapse. Self-compassion fuels recovery.
Shame fuels relapse. Self-compassion fuels recovery.
Final Thoughts
Relapse is not the end of the road. It’s a detour—a signal that something needs more care, not less. The more we understand the science and emotions behind relapse, the more prepared we are to face it with courage and clarity.
Whether you’re new to recovery or have been on this path for years, know this: you are not alone, and your journey is still valid. Healing is possible—and with the right tools and support, you can stay on the path toward a healthier, more empowered life.
Whether you’re new to recovery or have been on this path for years, know this: you are not alone, and your journey is still valid. Healing is possible—and with the right tools and support, you can stay on the path toward a healthier, more empowered life.
Helpful Resources
- SAMHSA National Helpline: 1-800-662-HELP (4357)
- SMART Recovery: https://www.smartrecovery.org
- AA Meeting Finder: https://www.aa.org
References
- National Institute on Drug Abuse. (2020). Drug Facts: Understanding Drug Use and Addiction. https://nida.nih.gov
- Sinha, R. (2017). The role of stress in addiction relapse. Drug and Alcohol Dependence, 179, 85-92. https://doi.org/10.1016/j.drugalcdep.2017.01.015
- Kelly, J. F., & Yeterian, J. D. (2012). The role of mutual-help groups in extending the framework of treatment. Addiction, 107(3), 408-416. https://doi.org/10.1111/j.1360-0443.2011.03609.x